Why Do Gay Guys In Couples Always Look The Same?

It's something I've come across a lot in my time on the gay scene. I see a gay couple and they look identical! Whether it be two balding bears with matching facial hair, or two glammed up camp guys with eyebrows tweezed to perfection and quiffs that mirror each other.

Its something that perplexes me. Ofcourse, I have no problem with it but I find it weird how increasingly this seems to be the case and seems to be the norm. Do they purposefully hunt for guys that look like them? Is it because they want to date a version of themselves? If so, LOL. That would be a funny reason, although I doubt they would admit it, or are even aware that is the real reason, if in fact it is.




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I myself don't really have a type, and so if a guy looked similar to me I doubt I'd care that much, but just being out and about, surely the chances are that someone who doesn't look like your long lost tiwn would take your fancy? I just don't get why I see so many gay couples that are identical. I like variety - it is the spice of life after all - so why limit your remit to guys that have the same hair style/face/ethnicity/body as yourself?

I guess gay couples are bound to look more similar to each other than heterosexual ones as they are of the same gender, so you wouldn't get a straight couple both balding with matching facial hair or with long blonde locks and pretty smiles, but it seems to be beyond the incidental I think.



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My advice? Try people that aren't like you, opposites attract after all. But hey if you want to date the mirror image of yourself that's cool too, was just asking the question.

Why do YOU think gay guys in couples always (or increasingly) look the same?

Fellow Blog Readers

Hey Readers

I just wanted to thank some of my readers out there who check out this blog every so often, and even those who contact me with messages of support.

It really does mean a lot to me and I know I'm not the only one out there who is dealing with this stuff so I am always very flattered when people take time out of their day to see what I've been up to and send me a message.




Thank you





I'm always amazed at where some of my blog readers are reading from too, its touching to see that you guys are from every corner of the globe!

Its a sunday here in London and I'm looking to tie a whole load of loose ends before the working week begins again.

Hope everyone out there is doing good and will write another blog post very soon. What's everyone else been up to??? Let me know.

GayLadForLife

Coooooool guy at work

Hey everyone

So I'm going to dive straight into it as time seems precious these days...

There is this guy at work and I fancy him...a lot! The thing is, he's older than me and is straight I think so there is little chance of anything ever happening - but seriously he is crazy hot! Usually I can find a guy good looking but not fancy them as such until I know them a little, but this guy is just beyond that lol

He has quite a buff body so I think he must go to the gym but always dresses quite smart casual and seems real friendly - I'm a little annoyed I have no reason to talk to him as his work is absolutely nothing to do with mine but when the opportunity presents itself I'm going for it!

I'd rather have a drink down the pub than an office flirt, but hey either or both will do!


It will probably reveal how he is married etc but oh well I can dream! lol

Whenever I walk past his desk where that team is I always sneak a glance that way to see if he's there, I swear all the women at work must fancy him too - he has a calming and cool air also, just seems quite collected and happy and content - ie not miserable and obviously hating his job.

At my last work there was a guy who I found crazy hot too (again...older than me...I think I see a trend here...) but I'm afriad this new guy would win if they were to ever have a hot off, or old hot vs new hot lol

A random (and short) post but thought I would share some daydreaming thoughts with you all...

Anyone else have a nice distraction at work who you sneak a glance at every now and then?


GayLadForLife ;-)